Wednesday, December 23, 2009

StReSsEd OuT

Maybe I'm wrong, but isn't Christmas supposed to be a time of happiness and goodwill towards men and women?  A time of joy and laughter and relaxation, especially for students whose brains have just been fried by final projects and exams?  Well, I have to say that this is probably the first year that I haven't been in the Christmas spirit.  What with all the stress that comes from being a student, working 40+ hours a week and teaching in RS, I just really wanted to feel all Christmasy.  You know--that peaceful feeling that comes when you look outside at falling snow, or walking around Temple Square looking at the lights?  That's what I want.  And I sure don't feel it. 

I know that part of this, well, most of this, is because of my position at work as a supervisor.  I'm the one who gets to take the angry calls of people who are "disappointed in our company" and want to know what we are going to do to make it up to them.  For heavens sake people!  Christmas is not the only time during the year to give gifts and tell people you care about them!  If your book doesn't get there until the day after Christmas, is your Christmas really going to be ruined?  If so, that is a pretty pathetic and totally skewed outlook on what Christmas is all about.  I want to reach through the phone and strangle these people for making my life, at that moment, just as miserable as theirs is.  I cannot control how long it takes the post office to deliver your Christmas cards!  I cannot make you understand that you have to order your projects more than a week before Christmas if you want them in time for Christmas!  But no.  I get to talk to the people who think that by telling you that you ruined their Christmas that it will help their package get there sooner.  Seriously?  Can't we just be nice to each other?  Can't we get it in our heads that we need to have the Christmas spirit all year long and not just one month a year?  I honestly think that if there was one single message that I can teach my children about Christmas, it is that we should treat people kind all year long and not just when we want something.  I know that sounds kind of cheesy, but it's true!  I just want people to have sympathy and be kind to each other and then, our world really would be a better place.

1 comments:

Vallen Family said...

I totally know what you mean. I kinda don't like teaching Ethan about Santa because people end up telling him "You have to be good because Santa won't bring you toys" Kids need to learn that service, good-will to men, and love is something that we should have all the time and not just for toys. Well we LOVE ya Shani. I hope Christmas is a good one. :) We had fun hangin out with you guys last weekend. We need to make sure we see you guys soon.